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The Ultimate Guide on How to Flirt with a Girl Over Text or in Person

Are you struggling to talk to your girl crush over text or in person? We’ve got you covered! Check out this ultimate guide on how to flirt with a girl over text or in person.

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There are certain dos and don’ts that I’ve come to realize about the art of flirting. How to flirt with a girl isn’t necessarily a step-by-step process for success.

Instead, it’s best to stay adaptable to your environment and feel comfortable socializing.

Of course, there are a few tips and tricks to keep in mind that are sure to help guide you through your first case of nerves.

The worst thing that could happen when flirting is rejection, and although that can be a pain to your ego, once you move past the fear of rejection, you’ll find a lot of acceptance.

This article is your perfect guide on how to flirt with a girl, and more importantly, feel confident doing so.

Check out this ultimate guide on how to flirt with a girl over text or in person!

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How to Flirt with a Girl Over Text

1. Be responsive

Nothing is worse than waiting hours for a response from someone when getting to know them and trying to form a relationship.

The conversation will end and you will lose the flow of the conversation.

It’s understandable to take a few minutes away from your phone, but if you want the girl to know you’re interested in her, especially in the beginning, you should be responding in a timely manner.

Show her that she is on your mind!

2. Use emojis

I personally love using emojis. I think they’re so fun and add a little bit of teasing to a conversation.

But do not overuse emojis because they can also make a conversation seem more of a joke than a bonding opportunity.

Stick to one or two emojis, limit your use of hearts and smilies, and keep it casually classy when flirting with a girl.

Positivity is key, but being overly enthusiastic could scare your crush away. 

3. Send funny selfies

When I’m finding it hard to come up with what to text someone, I start sending random updates about my day to fill the gap in the conversation.

You could send really anything (as long as it is appropriate)–a selfie saying “just went grocery shopping, off to the gym” could smoothly keep your conversation going.

Sharing a fun fact about yourself or asking a question about her are also great ways to keep her interested in your messages.

4. Send good night and good morning texts

It’s nice to be reminded over text when someone is thinking about you.

By sending a text in the morning and at night, it lets the girl you like know you are thinking about and care for her. 

5. Ask open-ended questions

Rather than asking “how are you” which is often responded with one word and abruptly ends the conversation, instead, ask her something like “what did you do at work today?” which opens a conversation to flow and turn into a way to get to know each other.

Flirting with a girl is about prolonged contact, so don’t cut off conversations before they lead to anything meaningful! 

6. Make suggestive comments

It can be challenging to move past a friendly text back and forth to a romantically charged conversation.

Something that may help pivot the mood would be to add suggestive comments like “oh yea?” or “make me.”

These playful comments can set a new tone in your messages and turn them into flirting. This way, you will send your girl giggling on the other end. 

7.  Use correct grammar!

There is nothing more annoying than incorrect grammar.

No matter if it is just in casual texts or in essays you are turning in for a class, correct grammar can improve a girl’s impression of you.

There is no reason you shouldn’t be capitalizing “I” in a text. And sometimes you need a dash or a period to break up a thought in a text!

Remember the little things really count when you want a girl to think highly of you.

It’s hard to read emotions through a text without proper grammar or other tonal hints.

Using simple characters such as exclamation points could add more signals for your girl to interpret when flirting over text.

8. Don’t be afraid to double—or even triple—text

This is another silly texting etiquette rule that bothers me. What’s the harm in sending more than one text at a time?

If the conversation seems to be lagging or you want to change the topic, easily send another text!

Most times, I’ll double text because it makes sense in the flow of conversation. It’s not as serious as others may make it seem.

Just make sure to avoid spamming her phone!

9. Compliment her

Compliments make anyone feel good! You could use comments to let your girl know that you notice things about her.

Compliment how she looked today–though that may seem like a given, you may be surprised at how much hearing that would make her day.

On a deeper level, compliment her on what you know of her character. Tell her that you admire her or compliment her work ethic.

When a girl sees that you notice more than surface-level characteristics, it can make her feel way closer to you. 

10. Talk to her on the phone!

Phones are for more than texting. If you’re comfortable, give her a call while you’re on a walk just to see what’s up!

Conversations always flow better when you’re talking in real-time instead of awkwardly waiting for each other to respond over text.

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How to Flirt with a Girl in Person

11 Be funny

The best thing a guy could do when flirting with a girl is to make her laugh. Be funny!

Make jokes! If a guy makes me laugh, I always feel a lot more of a comfortable connection with him.

I am a sucker for a good joke, and I am assuming other girls are as well!

12.  Initiate touch

This is a tricky one because we have to respect people’s physical boundaries, but the best way to show someone you’re romantically interested in them is to initiate physical touch.

If you get to see your crush in person, you may initiate a respectful hug or put your hand on her shoulder when in conversation.

Try to do something to let her know that you feel comfortable around her.

But, you may want to warm up to her over text or with distance before you escalate to initiating touch. 

13. Allude to future moments you can spend together

While in conversation, you can allude to activities you can do together at another time.

For example, if your conversation is about a music artist you both like, you can mention an upcoming concert or festival to attend.

Sounds pretty smooth, am I right?

14. Use confident body language

Confidence is key when flirting with a girl. No one wants to be guessing if you are or aren’t flirting.

Maintain eye contact, stand up straight, and direct your attention to your girl.

The way in which you hold yourself can say so much more about who you are than words often will.

Holding someone’s gaze for longer than a split second can be fairly intimate.

And not backing down from a stare is that slight confirmation that, yes, there is a connection being formed between you and her.

Body language goes both ways, so if she’s leaning away or not paying much attention, this is a sign that she is not feeling the relationship the same as you are. 

15. Ask her about herself

Most people love talking about themselves if given the chance! Direct some questions to her and show you’re interested in who she is.

This will also open a chance for you to tell her about yourself. You never know what you’ll have in common, and what you’ll playfully argue about in the future. 

16. Smile

Even more than your use of open body language, a smile goes a long way.

Whether it’s a small, shy turn of your lips or a big, cheesy grin, a smile lets your girl know you’re directing your attention to her.

It also shows that you feel comfortable around her and may help her feel the same way while around you.

17.  Look and feel your best

In the essence of flirting, your goal is to impress your girl.

Not only does this come with your behavior and confidence, but it comes with how you present yourself to her.

You should be taking care of yourself and present the best version of yourself when flirting with a girl.

18. Don’t use pick up lines

Using pick-up lines can make you look lazy and tend to make you sound outdated.

It may be a turn-off for the girl you are speaking with if you approach her with a sleazy one-liner comment.

This kind of flirting alludes to the fact that you are only interested in one thing.

Sometimes it works, but when flirting with a girl, leave the pickup lines at home. Chose another way to get her attention. 

19. Use the female gaze

What a guy thinks a girl is looking for completely differs from what a girl is actually seeking.

This can be explained by the male and female gaze. The male gaze is a way of sexualizing women for male viewing pleasure.

This is the kind of thinking that a girl will want a buff, muscular, strong, masculine man.

But the female gaze shows that girls really want an emotionally inept and charming fellow that sees her as their equal, not only a sexual object.

It explains why girls want a Loki, not a Thor.

So, next time you are trying to flirt with a girl, remember that you do not need to be a Thor in order for her to give you the time of day. 

20. Ask her out on a fun date

After all of these tactics, you should be ready to seal the deal. Ask her to the movies, go for a picnic or out to a nice dinner.

The goal of flirting is to make a move on the girl.

After you show her your charming smile, make her laugh, and ooze confidence, she won’t be able to turn you down!

Related: 70 Cheap and Fun Date Ideas for Teens

Check out these 11 proven tips on how to flirt with anyone!

 

In this video, learn fun and easy steps to flirt with a girl. I love that this video acknowledges how uncomfortable it can be to begin flirting with someone.

When you’re flirting with someone you really like, your nerves are completely heightened and you become hyperaware of her every move.

In order to succeed in flirting with a girl, you must break through these nerves. Confidence and comfort are the perfect balance in flirting. 

Flirting is an acquired skill. And like any other skill, you should continue to practice in order to get better!

Learning how to flirt with a girl is only the first part of getting someone to like you and become interested in forming a romantic relationship with you.

The bottom line is, just be yourself! These tips and tricks on how to flirt with a girl will get you noticed, but it’s YOU that has to seal the deal. Good luck!

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100+ Best Flirty Pick Up Lines For Her

Are you trying to get a girl’s attention? Are you having trouble thinking or things to say to her? Check out these best flirty pick up lines for her.

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Are you interested in a new girl? Are you trying to get her attention but are not quite sure how to do so? Are you trying to find a pick up line to use but not quite sure where to start?

You may be looking for some flirty pick up lines.

Maybe you want some cheesy pick up lines, funny pick up lines, cute ones, etc. No matter what type of pick up line you are looking for, you have come to the right place. 

In this article, I am going to provide you with a list of over 100 of the best flirty pick up lines to use. Hopefully, at least one of these pick up lines will work best for who you are interested in.

Or, at the very least, help inspire some pick up lines of your own. 

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Best Pick Up Lines for Her

1. I think there is something wrong with my eyes: I can’t take them off of you. 

2. I need to cross the street. Would you mind holding my hand? 

3. Are you as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside?

4. I think I need a map: I keep getting lost in your eyes.

5. I knew love at first sight was real when I saw you.

6. I would fall for you even in zero gravity.

7. If you were a song, you would be my favorite track.

8. The sparkle is so bright in your eyes–the sun is jealous.

9. I just won hide and seek because I found you.

10. Your beauty makes me appreciate being able to see.

11. Looking at you made me forget my pick up line.

12. If you were a triangle, you would be an acute one.

13. You looked familiar, but then I remembered I had only seen you in my dreams.

14. I am no photographer, but I can picture you and me together.

15. Feel my shirt; it is made of boyfriend material.

16. I am going to call you Google because you are everything I am searching for.

17. Can I follow you? I was told to follow my dreams.

18. Can I be the Romeo to your Juliet?

19. I just checked the crystal ball, and it says you are in my future.

20. So what do you do besides take my breath away? 

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Cheeky Pick Up Lines For Her

21. You got your first wish granted: I am here. What are your other two wishes? 

22. I am studying history. Today I am learning about our date. 

23. You like raisins? Then how do you feel about dates? 

24. Do you have a name, or can I call you mine? 

25. You must be a Klondike Bar because I would do anything to get you.

26. Are you a parking ticket because you have fine written all over you.

27. Good thing I brought my library card because I am checking you out.

28. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

29. Is it hot in here or is it just you?

30. Did you see what was on the menu? Me-n-U.

31. Do you know what time it is? I want to remember the exact minute I first saw you.

32. They say nothing lasts forever, will you be my nothing? 

33. I am an organ donor, and I will start by giving you my heart.

34. There is something wrong with my phone: it doesn’t have your number in it.

35. I have forks and knives; all I need is a little spoon.

36. Let’s commit the perfect crime–you steal my heart, and I will steal yours. 

37. Was that a cannon firing, or just my heart pounding? 

38. I think I lost my phone, can you call it? 

39. Four plus four equals eight, but you plus me equals fate.

40. Your lips look lonely, would they like to meet mine? 

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Cheesy Pick Up Lines For Her

41. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.

42. Did you just come out of the oven? Because you are hot.

43. Are you a loan? Because you sure have my interest.

44. Are you a broom? Because you swept me off my feet.

45. You’re so sweet that you are giving me a toothache.

46. If you were a vegetable, you would be a cute-cumber.

47. Do you have a band-aid? I scraped my knees falling for you.

48. If you were a fruit, you would be a fineapple.

49. I just learned that happiness does not start with an ‘h,’ it starts with ‘u.’

50. If you were a transformer, you would be Optimus Fine.

51. Do you like Star Wars? Because yoda the only one for me.

52. You look familiar? Didn’t we have chemistry together?

53. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk past again?

54. There is just one thing I want to change: your last name.

55. How was heaven when you left?

56. I must be in a museum because you are a work of art.

57. You better tie your shoes; I do not want you falling for anyone else.

58. Are you a keyboard? Because you are just my type.

59. Are you from Tennessee? Because you are the only ten-I-see.

60. If loving me is wrong, you do not want to be right.

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Cool Pick Up Lines For Her

61. Sweetness is my weakness.

62. Would you touch my hand so I can tell my friends I was touched by an angel?

63. You must be a broom because you swept me off my feet.

64. Is this the Hogwart’s express? Because it feels like you and I are heading somewhere magical.

65. How does it feel to be the most beautiful girl in the room?

66. Does your watch have a second hand? I want to know how long it took me to fall in love with you.

67. Can I take your picture? I want to show Santa what I want for Christmas.

68. I was going to buy a drink, but I got distracted by you.

69. I’m sorry, were you talking to me? No? Well, then please start.

70. You are like fine wine. The more I drink in, the better I feel.

71. I am horrible at math, but I do care about one number: yours.

72. Someone pinch me–you are too cute that I must be dreaming.

73. Are we flying? Because you seem Wright for me.

74. Are you the package I ordered, because I have been waiting for you all day?

75. If I were a cat, I would spend all of my nine lives with you.

76. I need sunglasses–your smile is blinding me.

77. We are like socks: we make a great pair.

78. You just proved that aliens exist because you abducted my heart.

79. Do you have a couple of minutes for me to hit on you? 

80. Let’s play a game. I win, you take me out; if you win, I take you out.

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Funny Pick Up Lines For Her

81. If you were a burger at McDonald’s, you would be a McGorgeous.

82. I’m good at algebra. I can replace your X, and you wouldn’t need to figure out Y.

83. Was your Dad a boxer? Because you are a knockout.

84. I think you are suffering from a lack of vitamin me.

85. Life without you would be like a broken pencil: pointless.

86. If I were a booger, would you pick me?

87. Call me Shrek because I am head ogre heels for you.

88. You are hotter than the bottom of my laptop.

89. Are you a goldfish? Because you are a snack that smiles back.

90. You’re so gneiss, I would never take you for granite.

91. Are you Franklin D. Roosevelt? Because you are a dime.

92. Are you made of copper? Because I Cu with me.

93. Are you my appendix? Because there is this feeling in my stomach that makes me want to take you out.

94. You are sweeter than 3.14.

95. Are you French? Because Eiffel for you.

96. Do you like coffee? Because I like you a latte.

97. Are you a cat? Because I feline a connection between us.

98. Did you swallow magnets? Because you are attractive. 

99. My name is Microsoft, can I crash at your place tonight? 

100. Your middle name must be Gillette, because you are the best a man can get. 

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Cute Pick Up Lines For Her

101. Forget hydrogen, you are the number one element in my life. 

102. Your eyes are like the ocean. I could swim in them all day.

103. Kiss me if I am wrong, but the Earth is flat, right? 

104. When I text you goodnight later, what phone number should I use? 

105. I am not a hoarder, but I want to keep you forever. 

106. You’re so cute that it’s distracting.

107. Is your name WIFI? Because I am really feeling a connection.

108. I’m fighting the urge to make you the happiest woman on Earth tonight.

109. How come you are not on top of a Christmas tree? That is where angels belong. 

110. I am new in town. Can you give me directions to your heart? 

111. I need a dictionary, because since I saw you, I have run out of words. 

112. You may want to keep your distance–I may fall for you. 

113. Are you an interior designer? Because you made this room more beautiful. 

114. I do not want to use some cheesy pick up line, so can I buy you a drink? 

115. You know what is beautiful? Read the first word.

116. Tonight I am wearing the smile you gave me. 

117. If you were a potato, you would be a sweet one. 

118. If kisses were snowflakes, I would send you a blizzard. 

119. You should never play hide-and-seek. Finding someone like you would be impossible. 

120. I know someone who likes you, but I am too shy to tell you who. 

Final Thoughts

Whether you are looking for cheesy pick up lines or funny pick up lines, this list has the pick up line that will catch the attention of the girl you are trying to attract.

This list of the best flirty pick up lines has something for everyone. It has a line for every situation, no matter what pick up line you are trying to find. This list has some of the best pick up lines on it.

Now, of course, not every single pick-up line is on the list, but this is a great place to start. 

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Badass Nicknames for Guys and Girls – The Ultimate Guide

Are you trying to come up with a great nickname for your friends in college? Check out these badass nicknames for guys and girls.

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What is a nickname? 

The Dictionary Definition: 

nick·name 

/ˈnikˌnām/ 

noun 

  1. a familiar or humorous name given to a person or thing instead of or as well as the real name.

Author’s definition: Any name apart from your actual parent-given name that others can call you. I, for example, go by, “Ad” which is short for Adam. 

There are many badass nicknames that you can choose from. I’ve included a comprehensive list below. But don’t forget that you can come up with your own as well. If you want a nickname, then look no further than this list.

Here are hundreds of badass nicknames to choose from. You do not want to miss this list!

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50 Generic Badass Nicknames for Girls 

1. Rebel

2. Magic

3. Siren

4. Fabulous

5. Crimson

6. Dusk

7. River

8. Flame

9. Lover

10. Lifer

11. Wave

12. Ocean

13. Creature

14. Corruption

15. Fantastic

16. Queen

17. Princess

18. Nessie

19. Red

20. Pom

21. Liquor

22. Lime

23. Crime

24. Forest

25. Canopy

26. Epiphany (Piphany for short)

27. Eclipse

28. Silence (Sy for short)

29. Privy

30. Pree

31. Bree

32. Sonnet

33. Riley

34. Cunning

35. Magnet

36. Whisper

37. Lust

38. Porcelain

39. Smoke

40. Sun

41. Sunshine

42. Silo

43. Sea

44. Plymouth

45. Star

46. Dark

47. Trident (Tri for short)

48. Pyre

49. Lover

50. Sanguine (Sang for short)

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50 Generic Badass Nicknames for Guys

1. Byron

2. Lord

3. King

4. Prince

5. Fire

6. Morbid

7. Darkness

8. Mortimer

9. Cry

10. Mane

11. The Quickening (Quick for short)

12. Love

13. Tiny

14. Biggie

15. Closeness

16. River

17. Dusk

18. Smoke

19. Sanguine (Sanger for short)

20. Sing

21. Blue

22. Red

23. Meyer

24. Sin

25. Gargoyle (Gar for short)

26. Silhouette (Sil for short)

27. Sight

28. Corrupt

29. Ninja

30. Might

31. Strong

32. Cormorant (Cor for short)

33. Raven

34. Eagle

35. Fly

36. Higher

37. Bother

38. Brother

39. Silence

40. Ace

41. Flight

42. Simon

43. Liger

44. Tiger

45. Lion

46. Pit

47. Smith

48. Villain

49. Hero

50. Ant

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Badass Nicknames Based on Personality

1. Gem (Rich)

2. Fire (Hot-tempered)

3. Flame (Hot-tempered)

4. Hydro

5. Leaf

6. Crimson

7. Greatness

8. Lover

9. Meltdown

10. Gray

11. Mortimer

12. Lace

13. Crazy

14. Lifer

15. Pomegranate (Pom for short)

16. Poem

17. Cry

18. Turtle

19. Sire

20. Porcelain

21. Depth

22. Tourniquet (Turn for short)

23. Diamond

24. Ruby

25. Sapphire

26. Emerald

27. Pearl

28. Rhinestone

29. Canopy

30. Light

31. Anima

32. Animus

33. Jet

34. Darkness

35. Gray

36. Stutter

37. Lively

38. Lilith

39. Admire

40. Freeze

41. Beautiful

42. Weather

43. Storm

44. Lightning

45. Thunder

46. Sunshine

47. Moon

48. Luna

49. Rain

50. River

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Badass Nicknames Based on Interests

1. Shark (Swimming)

2. Jet (Flying)

3. Pen (Writing)

4. Byte (Computers)

5. Angel (Medicine)

6. Suit (Business)

7. Runner (Running/jogging)

8. Hercules (Weightlifting)

9. Ace (Cards/gambling)

10. Magic (Magic)

11. Rusty (Tools/building)

12. Chestnut (Trees)

13. Two-by-Four (Carpentry)

14. Hax (Hacking)

15. Spotless (Cleaning)

16. Fighter (Boxing)

17. Picasso (Painting)

18. Amadeus (Music)

19. Pavarotti (Singing)

20. Swing (Golfing)

21. Pitch (Baseball)

22. Net (Basketball)

23. Pigskin (Football)

24. Moves (Dancing)

25. Bravo (Acting)

26. Shutter (Photography)

27. DiCaprio (Cinema)

28. Graphics (Design)

29. Chef (Cooking)

30. Poe (Poetry)

31. Graphite (Drawing)

32. Candy (Candle-making)

33. Jump (Parkour)

34. Bling (Personal Finance)

35. Fly (Hang-gliding)

Badass Nicknames Based on Zodiac Signs

1. Shark

2. Lion

3. Scorpion

4. Ram

5. Ocean

6. River

7. Lioness

8. Mane

9. Leonidas

10. Fire

11. Flame

12. Cappy

13. Cap

14. Scorp

15. Lionheart

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Badass Nicknames for Lovers

1. Lover

2. Love

3. Moonshine

4. Luna

5. Sunny

6. Lust

7. Lucky

8. Luck

9. Kiss

10. Kissandra

11. Sweet

12. Sweet-thing

13. Lullaby

14. Light-bug

15. Chocolate

16. Peppermint

17. Treat

18. Highness

19. Sire

20. Porcelain

21. Fruity

22. Paris

23. Queen

24. King

25. Perfection

26. Glory

27. Juicy

28. Cupid

29. Eros

30. Forever

31. Beautiful Sky

32. Lovely

33. Longing

34. Buttercup

35. Sugar

36. Like

37. Loving One

38. Juniper

39. Berry

40. Scrumptious

41. Sizzle

42. Smile

43. My Universe

44. My World

45. Poem

46. Poetry

47. Sonnet

48. Melody

49. Hope

50. Happiness

Tips to Find a Perfect Nickname

There are many ways to find the perfect nickname for you. I hope that the suggestions above at least guide you in the right direction. But in case they don’t, here is a list of tips for you to find the perfect nickname just for you.

1. What is my personality? How could I fit my personality with a nickname?

2. Where am I from? Did I move? Could I call myself by my city name (e.g., “Cali”)

3. What am I good at? What could I call myself that pertains to the fact that I’m good at something?

4. The best tip I have for you is to find a nickname that you can use around ALL of your friends. A universal nickname is the best idea since sliced bread because you’ll be able to use it anywhere

The Takeaways

The best names come from those who know us best. Or by us exclusively. I would talk to your friends and loved ones or have a brainstorming session to find the perfect badass nickname. There are many to choose from in the lists above, or, as I said before, you can pick your own.

I hope you found something worthwhile in this guide, and I hope I’ve helped you at least narrow down the nickname you want to eventually go by.

This is Adam, aka “Ad,” signing out.

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200 “Favorite Things” Questions to Ask to Get to Know Someone Better

Are you meeting new people? Check out these awesome “favorite things” questions to ask to get to know someone better!

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College should be seen as a great time of learning in a person’s life, whether it be in school or off-campus.

A good portion of this learning should come from making friends with students from all different walks of life and understanding their perspectives on the world.

However, college is a little bit different from high school, where you spend time with the same classmates for eight hours a day and five days a week.

Making friends, especially when you’re a freshman, can be very difficult. How do you get the conversation started? How do you fill in awkward silences?

Small talk is effective, but how do you begin to form a deeper connection? The best way to figure out if you and your potential friend have anything in common boils down to sharing the same favorite things.

With this list of two hundred “favorite” questions, which reflect on topics such as food, travel, and music, you can get to know anyone better! 

In this article:

Favorite Questions About Random Things 

  1. What is your favorite color? 
  2. If you have tattoos, which one is your favorite?
  3. What is your favorite season?
  4. What is your favorite ghost story?
  5. What is your favorite car to drive?
  6. What is your favorite Halloween costume? 
  7. What is your favorite work of art? 
  8. What is your favorite comic book character?
  9. What is your favorite book?
  10.  Do you have a favorite sports team? 
  11.  What is your favorite flower?
  12.  What is your favorite moment in history?
  13.  What is your favorite magazine? 
  14.  What is your favorite type of weather? 
  15.  What is your favorite planet?
  16.  Android or Apple: which is your favorite? 
  17.  Where is your favorite place to relax? 
  18.  What was your favorite stuffed animal?
  19.  What is your favorite perfume/cologne scent? 
  20.  What is your favorite color of nail polish?

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Favorite Questions About Career & Aspirations 

  1.  What is your favorite job that you have had so far?
  2.  What is/was your favorite thing to do at that job? 
  3.  Who are your favorite coworkers?
  4.  Who are your favorite former coworkers? 
  5.  Who is your favorite boss? 
  6.  When is your favorite time to work?
  7.  What is your favorite story from work? 
  8.  Where would be your favorite place to work?
  9.  What is your favorite benefit from work? 
  10.  What is your favorite thing to do after work? 
  11.  What is your favorite goal you’ve achieved? 
  12.  What is your favorite goal you’re currently working on?
  13.  What’s your favorite memory from college?
  14.  What was your favorite thing you learned in college/trade school? 
  15.  Where would be your favorite place to live?
  16.  What would be your favorite way to spend a million dollars?
  17.  Where would be your favorite place to retire? 
  18.  What is your favorite thing on your bucket list? 
  19.  What is your favorite language to study? 
  20.  Where would be your favorite place to get married? 

Favorite Questions About Traveling & Adventures

  1.  What is your favorite country to travel to?
  2.  What is your favorite continent to travel to?
  3.  What is your favorite cold place to travel to?
  4.  What is your favorite warm place to travel to?  
  5.  What is your favorite historical monument/artifact to visit? 
  6.  What would be your favorite fictional place to travel to? 
  7.  What is your favorite vacation that you have ever been on? 
  8.  What is your favorite picture taken on vacation? 
  9.  What is your favorite mode of transportation to use on vacation? 
  10.  Who is your favorite person to travel with?
  11.  What is your favorite thing to bring with you when traveling?
  12.  Do you have a favorite beach? 
  13.  What is your favorite thing to do at the beach? 
  14.  Swimming or boogie boarding – which is your favorite? 
  15.  What is your favorite food that you have had while on vacation? 
  16.  Where is your favorite place to go hiking?
  17.  Do you have a favorite hiking buddy?
  18.  What is your favorite road trip? 
  19.  Skiing, sledding, or ice skating – which is your favorite?
  20.  Where is your favorite place to picnic? 

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Favorite Questions About Entertainment

  1.  What is your favorite romance movie?
  2.  What is your favorite Oscar-winning movie? 
  3.  What is your favorite movie setting?
  4.  Who is your favorite director?
  5.  What is your favorite movie to watch with friends?
  6.  Do you have a favorite Harry Potter movie? 
  7.  What is your favorite sci-fi movie? 
  8.  What is your favorite tearjerker movie?
  9.  What is your favorite coming-of-age movie? 
  10.  Watching movies in theaters or at home: which is your favorite? 
  11.  What is your favorite television series? 
  12.  What is your favorite television character? 
  13.  What is your favorite streaming service?
  14.  Who is your favorite fictional villain? 
  15.  What is your favorite fictional relationship?
  16.  Do you have a favorite hobby? 
  17.  What is your favorite sport?  
  18.  Do you have a favorite sports team? 
  19.  Do you have a favorite sport to watch?
  20.  Where is your favorite sports arena/stadium? 

Favorite Questions About Animals 

  1.  Do you have a favorite pet?
  2.  If you have a pet, what’s your favorite thing to do with them? 
  3. What is your pet’s favorite place to go? 
  4. What is your favorite brand of pet food to buy?
  5.  Dogs or cats: which is your favorite? 
  6.  What is your favorite breed of dog? 
  7.  What is your favorite bird?
  8.  What is your favorite fish?  
  9. What’s your favorite insect? 
  10.  What is your favorite reptile?
  11.  What is your favorite amphibian? 
  12.  What is your favorite thing to buy at the pet store?
  13.  Do you have a favorite wildcat?
  14.  What is your favorite fictional animal character? 
  15.  What is your favorite animal to see at the zoo?
  16.  What is your favorite underwater mammal?
  17.  What is your favorite farm animal? 
  18.  What is your favorite extinct animal? 
  19.  What is your favorite anthropomorphic animal? 
  20. What is your favorite small animal? 

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Favorite Questions About Food & Drinks

  1. What is your favorite spicy food?
  2. What is your favorite fruit?
  3. Do you have a favorite vegetable? 
  4. What is your favorite type of cuisine?
  5. What is your favorite alcoholic beverage?
  6. What is your favorite fast-food restaurant?
  7. What is your favorite upscale restaurant? 
  8. What is your favorite appetizer?
  9. What is your favorite soda?
  10. What is your favorite dessert?
  11. Ice cream or cake: which one’s your favorite?
  12. What is your favorite diner?
  13. What is your favorite candy? 
  14. Coke or Pepsi – which is your favorite?
  15. What is your favorite dish to cook? 
  16. What is your favorite pasta dish? 
  17. What is your favorite healthy meal? 
  18. What is your favorite breakfast food?
  19. What is your favorite kind of cheese? 
  20. What is your favorite caffeinated beverage? 

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Favorite Questions About Clothes & Accessories 

  1. What is your favorite outfit?
  2. What is your favorite hat? 
  3. What are your favorite pair of shoes?
  4. What is your favorite jacket? 
  5. Do you have a favorite pair of glasses? 
  6. Do you have a favorite bracelet?
  7. Do you have a favorite pair of earrings? 
  8. What is your favorite sweater? 
  9. What is your favorite type of formal wear? 
  10. Where is your favorite place to go shopping for clothes?
  11. What is your favorite clothing brand?
  12. What is your favorite fashion show?
  13. What is your favorite sweatshirt? 
  14. What is your favorite makeup item? 
  15. What is your favorite swimsuit?
  16. Who is your favorite fashion icon?
  17. What is your favorite outfit to wear on a lazy day? 
  18. What is your favorite backpack/handbag? 
  19. What is your favorite hairstyle?
  20. What is your favorite hair color?

Favorite Questions About Music

  1. Who is your favorite songwriter?
  2. What is your favorite album?
  3. What is your favorite song about love?
  4. What is your favorite song about heartbreak?
  5. What is your favorite rap song?
  6. What is your favorite song from your childhood?
  7. What is your favorite concert you have been to?
  8. What is your father’s favorite song?
  9. What is your mother’s favorite song?
  10. What is your favorite guilty pleasure song?
  11. What is your favorite cover song? 
  12. What is your favorite band? 
  13. What is your favorite song to play in the car?
  14. What is your favorite song to play in the club?
  15. Who is your favorite guitar player?
  16. Who is your favorite drummer? 
  17. Who is your favorite vocalist? 
  18. What is your favorite musical instrument? 
  19. What is your favorite piece of music?
  20. Who is your favorite classical composer? 

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Favorite Questions About People & Family

  1. What is your favorite thing to do with your family? 
  2. What is your favorite family tradition? 
  3. What is your favorite family recipe? 
  4. What is your favorite family vacation?
  5. What is your favorite gift that you have received from your family? 
  6. Who is your favorite family member? 
  7. Who is your favorite parent? 
  8. Who is your favorite cousin?
  9. Do you have a favorite friend? 
  10. What is your favorite activity to do with your friends?
  11. Where is your favorite place to go with your friends? 
  12. Who was your favorite crush? 
  13. Who is your favorite author?
  14. Who is your favorite illustrator?
  15. Who is your favorite chef? 
  16. Who is your favorite celebrity?
  17. Who is your favorite historical figure?
  18. Who is your favorite inspirational figure?
  19. Who is your favorite sports player?
  20. Who is your favorite neighbor? 

Favorite Questions About Memories & Childhood

  1. What was your favorite thing about your childhood home? 
  2. What were your favorite childhood television shows?
  3. Who was your favorite childhood friend? 
  4. What was your favorite animal as a child?
  5. What was your favorite childhood food?
  6. What was your favorite childhood movie? 
  7. Who was your favorite teacher? 
  8. What was your favorite playdate? 
  9. Did you have a favorite childhood toy? 
  10. What was your favorite childhood song?
  11. Did you have a favorite school subject? 
  12. What was your favorite school lunch?
  13. What was your favorite after-school activity?
  14. What is your favorite memory?
  15. What is your favorite memory of school? 
  16. What is your favorite holiday memory?
  17. What is your favorite birthday memory? 
  18. What is your favorite memory of being with your family?
  19. What is your favorite memory of being with your friends?
  20. What is your favorite vacation memory? 

Final Thoughts

In college, the benefit of having friends in your classes cannot be understated. If you miss a class, your friend can always fill you in on what you missed.

If you have trouble understanding an assignment, you and your friend can brainstorm together.

Sometimes, the biggest factor when it comes to acing a class is the solidarity and comradery you share with your classmates.

However, in order to build a deeper connection with your peers, you have to get to know them better.

Ask them about their favorite things with this favorite questions list to see if you have anything in common. Who knows? Maybe it will be the start of a wonderful, thoughtful friendship!

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