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120 Friendship Quotes to Show Affection to Your Dear Friends

Friends are an amazing way to find emotional support. These are 120 friendship quotes to show affection to your dear friends.

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Friends can make or break your college experience. I’m a senior, and I’m finally beginning to have the social life I always wanted! 

During the peak of the pandemic, I and many others struggled with loneliness. In that time, the greatest support came from my friends, who called me or texted me every single day.

Friendship is eternal. It doesn’t have to be something that comes from childhood, it can be something brand new.

A great friendship is one that allows you to try new things. It’s also great when a person can be honest with you and can criticize your mistakes. 

Friendship emphasizes the human condition. Many of the quotes I compiled here aren’t modern. A lot comes from philosophers, authors, or great thinkers of the past.

I find this relevant because friendship is something that transcends all time, and I think it’s good to learn from those who came before us. 

Check out these 120 quotes to show your friends that you appreciate them! 

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Friendship Quotes About Life 

1.  “There’s nothing like the deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for all the right reasons.” -The Perks of Being a Wallflower

2. “You’re like the only person who’s ever gotten what I’m about.” -Freaks and Geeks

3. “True friends will go to the ends of the earth until they find the things you need.” -Miley Cyrus

4. “It’s the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.” -Marlene Dietrich

5. “We were together. I forget the rest.” -Walt Whitman

6. “A sweet friendship refreshes the soul.” -Proverbs 27:9

7. “Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.” -Maya Angelou

8. “A good friend is like a four-leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.” -Irish Proverb

9. “Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm & constant.” -Linda Grayson

10. “If we treated ourselves as well as we treated our best friend, can you imagine?” -Meghan Markle

11. “True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.” -David Tyson 

12. “They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” -Carl W. Buechner

13. “Friends and good manners will carry you where money won’t go.” -Elizabeth Taylor 

14. “It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

15. “The real test of friendship is: can you literally do nothing with the other person? Can you enjoy those moments of life that are utterly simple?” -Eugene Kennedy 

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16. “A friend can tell you things you don’t want to tell yourself.” -Frances Ward Weller

17. “A friend is one of the nicest things you could have, and one of the best things you can be.” -Winnie the Pooh 

18.  “Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.” -Jane Austen

19.  “Friends are the family you choose.” -Edna Buchanan

20. “Growing apart doesn’t change the fact that for a long time we grew side by side; our roots will always be tangled. I’m glad for that.” -Ally Condie

21. “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” -Oprah Winfrey

22. “To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.” -Dr. Seuss

23. “A single rose can be my garden…a single friend, my world.” -Leo Buscaglia

24. “Time doesn’t take away from friendship, nor does separation.” -Tennessee Williams

25. “True friends are never apart, maybe in distance but never in heart.” -Helen Keller

26. “The essence of true friendship is to make allowance for another’s little lapses.” -David Storey

27. “The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing…not healing, not curing…that is a friend who cares.” -Henri Nouwen

28. “Friends…they cherish one another’s hopes. They are kind to one another’s dreams.” -Henry David Thoreau

29. “To be honest with you, I don’t have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that’s aching to see you smile again.” -Laura Ortiz 

30. “The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

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31. “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” -Marcel Proust

32. “My friends are my estate.” -Emily Dickinson

33. “We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.” -Robert Louis Stevenson

34. “My friends have made the story of my life. In a thousand ways they have turned my limitations into beautiful privileges.” -Helen Keller 

35. “Friends are those rare people who ask how we are, and then wait to hear the answer.” -Ed Cunningham

36. “The greatest sweetener of human life is friendship.” -Joseph Addison 

37. “A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart.” -Gabriel Garcia Marquez

38. “Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.” -George Washington

39. “In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends.” -Martin Luther King Jr.

40. “Knowledge can never replace friendship.” -Patrick Star

Wise Friendship Quotes

41. “A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself.” -Jim Morrison

42. “I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.” -Helen Keller

43. “What draws people to be friends is that they see the same truth. They share it.” -C.S. Lewis

44. “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.” -Eleanor Roosevelt

45. “Only your real friends tell you when your face is dirty.” -Sicilian proverb

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46. “Friends are medicine for a wounded heart, and vitamins for a hopeful soul.” -Steve Maraboli

47. “Close friends are truly life’s treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty, they are there to guide and support us, to share our laughter and our tears. Their presence reminds us that we are never really alone.” -Vincent Van Gogh

48. “Awards become corroded. Friends gather no dust.” -Jesse Owens

49. “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” -Oprah Winfrey 

50. “Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm & constant.” -Socrates 

51. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” -Walter Winchell

52. “Rejoicing in our joy, not suffering over our suffering, makes someone a friend.” -Friedrich Nietzsche 

53. “Friends and good manners will carry you where money won’t go.” -Margaret Walker 

54. “The language of friendship is not words but meanings.” -Henry David Thoreau 

55. “Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” -Albert Camus

56. “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.” -Bernard Baruch 

57. “Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” -Muhammad Ali

58. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.” -Tennessee Williams

59. “Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.” -G. Randolf

60. “False friendship, like the ivy, decays and ruins the walls it embraces; but true friendship gives new life and animation to the object it supports.” -Richard Burton

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61. “My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.” -Aristotle

62. “But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine.” -Thomas Jefferson

63. “Be genuinely interested in everyone you meet and everyone you meet will be genuinely interested in you.” -Rasheed Ogunlaru

64. “Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.” -John Lennon 

65. “There is no possession more valuable than a good and faithful friend.” -Socrates 

66. “Cherish the friend who tells you a harsh truth, wanting ten times more to tell you a loving lie.” -Robert Breault

67. “One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.” -Euripides 

68. “All love that has not friendship for its base, is like a mansion built upon the sand.” -Ella Wheeler Wilcox

69. “True friends visit us in prosperity only when invited, but in adversity they come without invitation.” -Theophrastus 

70. “The trouble is not in dying for a friend, but in finding a friend worth dying for.” -Mark Twain 

71. “Friends are as companions on a journey, who ought to aid each other to persevere in the road to a happier life.” -Pythagoras 

72. “Friends, though absent, are still present.” -Marcus Tullius Cicero 

73. “Yes, we must ever be friends; and of all who offer you friendship let me be ever the first, the truest, the nearest and dearest.” -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow 

74. “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” -Carl Jung

75. “Where there are friends there is wealth.” -Plautus

76. “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.” -Donna Roberts

77. “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.” -Mother Teresa

78. “When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.” -William Arthur Ward

79. “Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.” -C.S. Lewis 

80. “Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.” -Mark Twain 

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Friendship Quotes for Students

81. “The friends you make in college are friends you’ll have for life, even if you don’t talk for years at a time.” -Jessica Park

82. “Don’t make friends who are comfortable to be with. Make friends who will force you to lever yourself up.” -Thomas J. Watson

83. “True friends are like diamonds – bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.” -Nicole Richie

84. “Anything is possible when you have the right people there to support you.” -Misty Copeland

85. “‘Tis the privilege of friendship to talk nonsense, and to have her nonsense respected.” -Charles Lamb

86. “If you are ever lucky enough to find a weirdo, never let them go.” -Matthew Gray Gubler

87. “Everyone you meet knows something you don’t know but need to know. Learn from them.” -C.G. Jung

88. “A friend may be waiting behind a stranger’s face.” -Maya Angelou

89. “Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation.” -Oscar Wilde

90. “Each new friendship can make you a new person, because it opens up new doors inside of you.” -Kate DiCamillo

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91. “Getting to know new people and gaining new friends is one of life’s greatest pleasures. So conquer your fears and get out there.” -Tony Clark

92. “A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.” -Bernard Meltzer 

93. “A good friend is a connection to life – a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world.” -Lois Wyse 

94. “Being honest may not get you a lot of friends but it’ll always get you the right ones.” -John Lennon

95. “Cultivate solitude and quiet and a few sincere friends, rather than mob merriment, noise and thousands of nodding acquaintances.” -William Powell 

96. “We are each the star of our own situation comedy, and, with luck, the screwball friend in somebody else’s.” -Robert Breault 

97. “The best things in life are free. And it is important never to lose sight of that. So look around you. Wherever you see friendship, loyalty, laughter, and love…there is your treasure.” -Neale Donald Walsch

98. “Friendship is an art, and very few persons are born with a natural gift for it.” -Kathleen Norris

99. “Be true to your work, your word, and your friend.” -Henry David Thoreau

100. “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.” -Alice Walker

101. “A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” -William Shakespeare

102. “My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me.” -Henry Ford

103. “Associate yourself with people of good quality, for it is better to be alone than in bad company.” -Booker T. Washington

104. “To go against the dominant thinking of your friends, of most of the people you see every day, is perhaps the most difficult act of heroism you can perform.” -Theodore H. White

105. “In prosperity, our friends know us; in adversity, we know our friends.” -John Churton Collins

106. “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” -Dale Carnegie

107. “The most ordinary things could be made extraordinary, simply by doing them with the right people.” -Nicholas Sparks

108. “A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your success.” -Doug Larson

109. “My definition of a friend is somebody who adores you even though they know the things you’re most ashamed of.” -Jodie Foster

110. “Depth of friendship does not depend on length of acquaintance.” -Rabindranath Tagore

111. “Some people arrive and make such a beautiful impact on your life; you can barely remember what life was like without them.” -Anna Taylor

112. “A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.” -Elbert Hubbard

113. “Things are never quite scary when you’ve got a best friend.” -Bill Watterson

114. “Ten minutes with a genuine friend is better than years spent with anyone less.” -Crystal Woods

115. “Never let your best friends get lonely…keep disturbing them.” -Candlelight Publications

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116. “Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.” -Khalil Gibran

117. “If you go looking for a friend, you’re going to find they’re very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere.” -Zig Ziglar

118. “The better part of one’s life consists of his friendships.” -Abraham Lincoln

119. “Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you; spend a lot of time with them, and it will change your life.” -Amy Poehler

120.“A friend is like an Oreo, it’s not always that great, but it always gets better!” -Erin Westbrook

10 Tips to Have a Positive Friendship 

1. Make Sure to Allot Time for Each Other: I’m a very busy person. I have school three days a week and I work five. Once I’m back in the full swing of things, it becomes difficult to spend time with friends.

If it becomes too difficult, you don’t need to meet in person. Simply having a weekly phone call or FaceTime is a great way to keep friends updated and connected. Then, it’s a big deal to finally meet in person!

2. Don’t Spend Too Much Time Together: On the other hand, everyone needs time to recharge. Everyone also has their own responsibilities. If one of your friends can’t get back to you immediately, don’t sweat it. There may be something going on that they don’t want to tell you at the moment.

If you want to tell someone that you won’t be in contact, just say, “I have something going on right now and I have to disappear for a bit. It’s nothing against you, I simply have to work my own things out.”

3. Establish Accountability: Just because you are friends doesn’t mean you won’t make mistakes. If you’re having issues with someone, and you feel it is affecting your friendship negatively, gently tell them how you’re feeling.

Make sure you’re not too aggressive, but make sure your feelings are known. Beating around the bush won’t get you anywhere. 

4. Be Their Biggest Supporter: A true friend doesn’t bring others down. If your friend is going through a tough time, support them. In times of success, be their hype person.

If you feel jealousy, those are your own feelings. Do not let them get in the way of your friendship. 

5. Treat Friends Like Family: I come from an Italian family, and when I was younger many of my friends were also Italian. I was treated like a cousin when I went to my friends’ family events.

It’s a different level of personal connection when you involve your friend so deeply in your life. Just remember to keep boundaries so it doesn’t become too much! 

6. Try New Things: Everyone has something to bring to the table. I admit, I was a very sheltered person when I met my friends in high school. While one of my friends had a lot of similarities to me, she also had experienced a lot of things that I didn’t.

As a result of hanging out with her, I tried lots of new foods and went to lots of new places that I would have never gone to otherwise. Culture is a great way to bond and experience new things, and most importantly, make new friends. 

7. Ask For Feedback: I do this all the time in my classes, but this can translate to social life as well. For example, in class, I may peer review my essays, and that helps me improve my writing.

In my social life, I would ask my friends for feedback on outfits, going to new places, handling certain situations, etc. It can offer new perspectives and make the friendship open to discussion. 

8. Pay Attention to the Little Things: When your friend says she likes a certain type of candy, you can give it to her when she’s having a bad day. Or when she brings up an issue she’s been having, you can add to the conversation because you remembered what she said previously.

In these ways, you show your attention to detail and level of concern. This also establishes trust and honesty. 

9. Keep Promises: A friendship is almost like a job. I say “almost” because friendships should be fun. However, I am a person who is always on time and plans things in advance.

These are good qualities to have regardless of a job. If you say to your friend “let’s go out at 9 o’clock on Friday night,” and the friend gives no notice and doesn’t show up, then that’s a bad friend. Give notice if you can’t go, it’s basic etiquette. 

10. Don’t Always Offer Advice, Just Listen: Sometimes I want to rant and I gain unsolicited advice. If someone tells you or shows in their body language that they just want to talk, then simply sit and listen.

Friendship is a two-way street, so don’t expect someone to listen to you if you won’t listen to them. 

A quote can only do so much. You can send these to your friends out of appreciation, but also consider my advice! I hope these helped you greatly. 

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73 Motivational Quotes for Students To Study Hard-The Ultimate 2022 Guide

Need a little extra inspiration to do well in school? Check out these motivational quotes for students to study harder.

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Forget writer’s block! One of the most frustrating feelings out there is student’s block; when your mind powers off, all the words on the page blend together, and you can’t seem to carry on.

As a student, I have had times when my brain feels too full to cram anything more inside. Thankfully, people wiser than myself have had a lot to say about learning, about ways to get motivated, and how to turn your inspiration into something rewarding.

I have compiled some of my favorite quotes (73 of them, to be exact!) for students to turn to when they are in need of a little extra inspiration. 

This post is all about motivational quotes for students to study hard.

 


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This collection is divided into six helpful sections, specifically for scholars such as yourself. First comes inspiration to work hard, something we all need from time to time.

Then: Overcoming failure, inspiring creativity, dealing with stress, and student life.

Finally, because education gives us the power to create something greater than ourselves, the final section is dedicated to community and positivity. 

For my music lovers out there: At the end of each section, you may notice each quote comes from a song.

Find each song lyric, and by the end of the article you’ll have a short playlist for studying, commuting to class, or simply to enjoy!

Being a student is hard work. These quotes, however, will give your mind the motivation it needs to keep studying—who knows, maybe you will even discover a reason to get excited about what you are learning. 

Table of Contents:

 

Motivation to Work hard

Finding the inspiration to go on can be one of the most difficult and ongoing trials of your college career.

It is a demanding point in life: This is typically your first swing at adulthood, coupled with an unprecedented mountain of work—who wouldn’t need some extra motivation?

 


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  1. ‘We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.’ – Aristotle

Aristotle could not have summed it up more perfectly. Instead of thinking we are either exceptional or unexceptional, having a growth mindset—believing positive qualities are earned through work—can make us better students, and better people.

      2. ‘Today is not just another ordinary day. It is an opportunity to do, or say, something that just might inspire someone to greater becoming.’ – T. F Hodge 

Education can be a powerful tool when applied; who knows, maybe the assignment you are laboring over tonight could be an inspiration for somebody tomorrow!

  • ‘Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.’ – T. S Eliot

There is no ceiling on how determined you can be, or, for what matter, what one can achieve with a little bit of ambition and focus.

  • ‘Sometimes things can be possible if we want them bad enough.’ – T. S Eliot

I could not pass up the opportunity to share another quote from Eliot. As usual, he’s right: You determine your reality, so bring the things you want into being.

  • ‘We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.’ – Max De Pree

Like most worthwhile things, changing can be intimidating. A caterpillar cannot stay a caterpillar; you can only become who you want to be by evolving. 

  • ‘Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings.’ – Walter H. Cottingham

Everyone is intelligent in their own way, so whether you consider yourself foolish (I know I do, from time to time) or not, this reminder is for you.

Once you find a passion, a talent, or an interest, your purpose is to expand on it.

  • ‘We know what we are, but we know not what we may be.’ – William Shakespeare

The words of the immortal bard have inspired scholars for centuries. This quote from Hamlet reminds us that our potential is without limit, so chase it!

  • ‘Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.’ – Tim Note

Made famous by Kevin Durant, this snippet of wisdom says everything in nine short words. Nothing is out of reach when you put in the effort, so don’t let the lazy talent-holders of the world intimidate you. 

  • ‘There are two things in life you are in total control over are your attitude and your effort.’ – Billy Cox

There is so much, especially at school, that we can’t control. Take it from a student of COVID: suddenly I was moving across countries, adapting to virtual classes (something I am sure very few of us miss), and not knowing what tomorrow would look like.

Through the chaos that is student life, you always have control over your outlook and the work you put into your studies.

  • ‘I don’t like to doze by the fire. I like adventures, and I am going to find some.’ – Louisa May Alcott

I believe this is the only quotation in this collection which comes from a fictional character, but Jo March is a figure who is hard to erase.

We could learn a lot from her, too: Don’t just sit by the fire (or behind your phone screen), make the most of being young and adventurous! 

 


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  • ‘I was born for something greater than I was—and greater I would become.’ – Mary Shelley

Solemn words, and they pack a punch. What better way to become something greater than to strengthen your mind?

  • ‘Oh, it’s delightful to have ambitions. I’m so glad I have such a lot. And there never seems to be any end to them—that’s the best of it. Just as soon as you attain one ambition you see another one glittering higher up still. It does make life so interesting.’ – L. M Montgomery

Ambition doesn’t have to be all caffeine and ragethough there is nothing more effective in fueling an all-nighter—, it can be beautiful, too. 

  • ‘I’m a shooting star leaping through the sky like a tiger, defying the laws of gravity. I’m a racing car passing by like Lady Godiva – I’m gonna go, go, go, there’s no stopping me.’ -Freddy Mercury, ‘Don’t Stop Me Now’

 

If this list gives you the push you needed to hit those books, you can check out BLENDtw’s other articles on studying, whether it’s for final exams, taking notes, or even books about the practice of studying.

 

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Inspiring creativity:

You have arrived at my personal favorite section, which I curated to give you some heart and soul.

Whether you are searching for something to unblock those creative juices, or you are simply in need of some poetry, this section is for the creative minds out there.

All students need innovative energy, at the end of the day.

 


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  • ‘Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.’ – Franz Kafka

Whether your obsession is academic success, true crime podcasts, or Victorian lampshades, don’t shy away! Embrace those things that make you feel most alive.

  • ‘Creativity takes courage.’ – Henri Matisse

Three simple words, and very true. It can be hard to do what others are not doing; being creative in spite of it all is a sign of bravery. 

  • ‘Normality is a paved road; it’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.’ – Vincent van Gogh

This collection would not be complete without this classic from van Gogh. A reminder that some of the most beautiful things in life can only be found off the beaten path.

  • ‘I will not be another flower, picked for my beauty and left to die. I will be wild, difficult to find, and impossible to forget.’ – Erin van Vuren

Another pointer to flowers; do I sense a theme? It makes sense that flowers should inspire creativity: Flowers are not only pretty—each is unique.



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  • ‘Understand me. I’m not like an ordinary world. I have my madness, I live in another dimension and I do not have time for things that have no soul.’ – Charles Bukowski

Luckily, as students we are less likely to encounter subject matter that ‘has no soul.’ The knowledge your professors share, the major you choose, and the classes you take hold the potential to enrich your life and soul.

  • ‘It is not madness. It is an effort to transcend the rigidities and the patterns made by the rational mind.’ – Anais Nin

Some people call it madness, some people call it transcendence. There will always be those who don’t understand your unique style of genius; grow your passions in spite of them. 

  • ‘Stars are not small or gentle. They are writhing and dying and burning. They are not here to be pretty. I am trying to learn from them.’ – Caitlyn Siehl

I know very well how hard it can be to see beyond the superficial. Sometimes I forget my goal in class is to learn, and not to be wearing the best outfit. Being well-dressed is one thing, but there is so much more to discover about one’s self beyond what is on the surface.

  • ‘Art and love are the same thing: It’s the process of seeing yourself in things that are not you.’ – Chuck Klosterman

Why not try approaching those reading assignments with a little love? Beyond the puzzles of academic writing, there are usually human stories to be found, or something to learn about yourself through something outside your own being.

  • ‘Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.’ – Albert Einstein

Who would want to move predictably, when one could go everywhere? I included this quote as a reminder that progress does not have to be linear; the most worthwhile adventures often come from the unexpected.

  • ‘You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.’ – Oscar Wilde

Creativity is a renewable resource! So don’t be stingy with it—flex those creative muscles whenever you get the chance.

  • ‘The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.’ – Sylvia Plath

When you do not trust yourself, it is difficult to create. This goes for artistic endeavors, but it also applies to any academic writing or schoolwork. Self-doubt only pollutes your work, so trust in your own knowledge and skill.

  • ‘To be creative means to be in love with life. You can be creative only if you love life enough that you want to enhance its beauty, you want to bring a little more music to it, a little more poetry to it, a little more dance to it.’ – Osho

Talk about a worthwhile mission: Being in love with life. I think of love as a verb (thank you, bell hooks), and an essential part of that action is creativity. Human beings have always shown gratitude for being alive through art, music, writing, and beauty; creation is as vital and natural as breathing.

  • ‘Music is a world within itself, with a language we all understand. With an equal opportunity for all to sing, dance and clap their hands.’ – Stevie Wonder

 


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Overcoming failure:

Nobody gets everything right the first time. Sometimes not even the second, or third. As a student, we experience setback after setback throughout our college careers.

And boy, is it brutal! However, there are few obstacles which cannot be overcome, or failures which cannot be learned from.

With a little motivation, hopefully you will be able to bounce back from whatever is holding you down.

 

 

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  • ‘Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: The last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.’ – Viktor E. Frankl

College can be a time of feeling powerless. What cannot be taken from you, however, is your outlook. Perspective is a powerful tool; when used correctly, it can brighten any situation.

  • ‘It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past never worked.’ – Shannon L. Adler

Okay, okay, maybe you are not able to flee the country and commit fully to your alter ego every time you get a less-than-perfect exam score, but this advice rings true.

What Shannon Adler is saying is you must become the sort of person with the capacity to achieve all you want to achieve, and live the lifestyle you want to live.

  • ‘When teachers doubt your potential, show them how wrong they truly are.’ – Ace Antonio Hall

I have had my fair share of professors who simply did not mesh with my style of learning, which can be one of the most frustrating obstacles in college.

Nothing is more rewarding, then, than proving yourself in spite of them. 

  • ‘You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.’ -C.S Lewis

If I had a time machine, there are a million things I would change, starting with telling my past self not to register for a select few of these classes.

No matter how badly I wish I could drop Economics, that is not within my reach at the moment. What is possible, however, is finishing out the class the right way—by working hard and staying motivated. 

  • ‘If you push through that feeling of being scared, that feeling of taking a risk, really amazing things can happen.’ – Marrisa Mayer

‘That feeling of being scared’ is all too familiar, and I find it only fades or evolves, rather than disappears, the deeper into university you go.

But take it from a self-identified risk-taker: The best parts of my life have been earned just beyond that feeling of fear. It is okay to be scared, of course, but it is better not to let that feeling rule your choices.

  • ‘But we cannot simply sit and stare at our wounds forever.’ – Haruki Murakami

This quote brings a quiet sort of peace. It does not forbid sitting, or staring at one’s wounds for a short time, but offers a gentle reminder that this is not a permanent solution.

So sit, if you must, and nurse your wounds, but get up eventually.

  • ‘We are all ordinary. We are all boring. We are all shy. We are all bold. We are all heroes. We are all helpless. It just depends on the day.’ – Brad Meltzer

There is no such thing as categories of people. We are all ordinary and extraordinary—the difference, usually, is the moment we are in. With this in mind, remember that a few setbacks or failures do not define who you are in the big picture.

  • ‘The darker the night, the brighter the stars!’ – Appollon Maykov

I could not help but insert some outright positivity here. And why not! In your lowest moments, the parts of your life that matter most—maybe it is your friends, your family, your dog—are there to offer the most love and support.

  • ‘I am interested in what Flannery O’Connor called a ‘moment of grace’: The point where people are forced to make a decision that either enables them to transcend a circumstance or succumb to it.’ – Simon Joyner

Speaking of perspective, why not consider your low points not as obstacles, rather, ‘moments of grace’? This is a crossroads, or better yet an opportunity to grow beyond a trial. 

  • ‘Success is not in what you have, but who you are.’ – Bo Bennett

Our reactions to failure define us more than our tangible achievements. Missing out on an opportunity is disappointing, to be sure, but opens up a chance to evolve.

  • ‘Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.’ – Samuel Beckett

Beckett was a great—perhaps the greatest—author of failure and what it entails. I read this as a call for persistence: Even if you are failing a second time, the resistance against giving up gives you wisdom, if not immediate success. 

  • ‘I’m a Survivor, I’m not gon’ give up, I’m not gon’ stop, I’m gon’ work harder.’ – Destiny’s Child

 

Related: 100 Quotes About Overcoming Struggles in Life

Dealing with stress:

The emotion which has been most consistent throughout my time in college is, unfortunately, stress. In your campus bubble, every problem can seem like catastrophe!

Thankfully, our problems are very seldom as big as we make them to be in our mind.

Great minds have been coaching anxiety-ridden students for years on how do deal with the perpetual panic most of us feel; often, the solution starts with lowering those stress levels. 

 


 

  • ‘When you consider things like the stars, our affairs don’t seem to matter very much, do they?’ – Virginia Woolf

As we enter this more anxiety-filled area of the article, I thought a healthy amount of perspective could do us some good. Zooming out, our little problems seem small up against the vast expanse of the universe.

Whatever you are going through, remember: It’s not the end of the world!

  • ‘One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else’s survival guide.’ – Brene Brown

Try observing this point of struggle in reverse; this will all be a story someday, so don’t invest in extra misery by sweating the details.

  • ‘I will breathe. I will think of solutions. I will not let my worry control me. I will not let my stress level break me. I will simply breathe. And it will be okay. Because I don’t quit.’ – Shayne Mcclendon

Everybody needs a mantra or affirmation from time to time. Try saying this in front of your mirror when the water seems to be rising too high. 

  • ‘Just when you feel you have no time to relax, know that this is the moment you most need to make time to relax.’ – Matt Haig

We can only be powerful as long as we are nourished! Your body and mind are muscles—to be used, yes, but also to be rested and taken care of.

As counterproductive as it may seem in moments of anxiety, prioritizing relaxation is crucial. In fact, BLENDtw has an entire compilation of self-care quotes to remind you to ensure your hierarchy of needs is fulfilled.

 


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  • ‘Why worry? If you’ve done the very best you can, worrying doesn’t make it any better.’ -Walt Disney

Stress can be productive, yes, when it has the power to motivate. However, many things are beyond our control.

It is important to recognize once something is out of your hands; that is the moment to breathe, put it out of your mind, and call your friends for some good old-fashioned distraction. 

  • ‘The big, bad unknown is only that until it is known. Then you look back and wonder what all the fuss and worry was about.’ – S. A. Tawks

Here is another reminder to zoom out, see the big picture, and maybe cut down on the worries which are not productive.

  • ‘If you want to conquer the anxiety of life, live in the moment, live in the breath.’ – Amit Ray

Interestingly, this is our second reminder in this compilation to breathe. It is a simple but potent cure against anxiety; our breath connects us to our body, as well as feeds the mind. So stay centered and take some deep breaths. 

  • ‘Scared is what you’re feeling. Brave is what you’re doing.’ – Emma Donoghue

As we saw in the section on overcoming failure, there is a real difference between what you do and the way you feel.

When dealing with stress, it is the action that matters most. Though you may feel the negativity of stress and fear, the steps you take in spite of all it are monumental.

  • ‘My body needs laughter as much as it needs tears. Both are cleansers of stress.’ – Mahogany Silverrain

Not wanting to suggest you suppress all this negativity, I included this nugget of wisdom as a reminder that one must allow themselves to feel.

Unfortunately it is not possible to put your head down and power through everything; a good cry session can work as well as medicine. 

  • ‘A day of worrying is more exhausting than a day of work.’ – John Lubbock

After you have had that cry sesh, it could be time to put aside those worries and get to work. Try channeling your stress into productive outlets: don’t fixate on the due date, just focus on the next piece of the puzzle.

  • ‘You will never be able to experience everything. So, please, do poetical justice to your soul and simply experience yourself.’ – Albert Camus

A huge source of stress can be the fear you’re not doing enough. Not to worry: your only job is to exist and experience.

  • ‘Ain’t got no cash, ain’t got no style, ain’t got no girl to make you smile? Don’t worry, be happy.’ – Bobby McFerin

 

Related: 120 Most Inspirational & Motivational Quotes for College Students

Student life:

People have been students for thousands of years. Living off of ramen may have shrunk our memories a bit, and we can forget to appreciate the romance of being a scholar.

Getting lost in piles of books, spending a day learning and writing, and living as a student makes us part of a long tradition of academia.

While this era may only last a few years for the majority of students, appreciating the history and aesthetics of a scholarly lifestyle can enrich each of those years.


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  • ‘Do question, even the basics! 

          You will be a fool for once! 

          If you don’t, you will be, for a lifetime.’ – Himmilicious 

It is an appealing thought, being the smartest in the class from day one. What is more valuable than natural knowledge, however, is openness to learning, asking questions, and even looking foolish from time to time. 

  • ‘Books are the mirrors to the soul.’ – Virginia Woolf

Books can be more than instruments of cruel and unusual punishment. Without the weight of assignments attached, books are in themselves very human.

They reflect experience and emotion, as well as knowledge.

  • ‘I will cut adrift—I will sit on pavements and drink coffee—I will dream; I will take my mind out of its iron cage and let it swim.’ – Virginia Woolf

Another Virginia Woolf quote—sue me. I couldn’t resist; this is a perfect articulation of the romantic side of being a student. Why not revel in it a bit? 

  • ‘Study hard what interests you most in the most undisciplined, irreverent, and original manner possible.’ – Richard Feynmann

‘Studying hard’ does not have to mean intense boredom. When you are able to find passion for your subject matter, you create room for something radical.

  • ‘You are always a student, never a master. You have to keep moving forward.’ – Conrad Hall

Even after getting a degree, there is always more to learn. So think of yourself as a perpetual student; the best learners are committed to the role for a lifetime.

  • ‘The capacity to learn is a gift, the ability to learn is a skill; the willingness to learn is a choice.’ – Brain Herbert

By entering university, you have proven you hold capacity and ability to learn, but the choice to learn is ongoing. Keep choosing your education—you’re two-thirds there!

  • ‘I am always doing what I cannot do yet, in order to learn how to do it.’ – Vincent van Gogh

Nobody pops into this world as a master of all trades. If you want to be good at something or learn a new skill, that means trying something new at the risk of being less-than-competent on the first go.

  • ‘I have lived a thousand lives and I have loved a thousand loves. I’ve walked on distant worlds and seen the end of time. Because I read.’ – George R. R. Martin

If I have not convinced you to romanticize your readings, take it from the author of A Game of Thrones instead.

He offers an enticing deal—why settle for one life, when you could experience many?

 


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  • ‘Study hard, for the well is deep, and our brains are shallow.’ – Richard Baxter

A grueling lecture can leave your brain feeling more shallow than usual. Thankfully, every student has as much capacity to hold information as they have a will to study and review.

  • ‘Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.’ – Mahatma Gandhi

You may not be able to rely on much in this life—money comes and goes, as do people—, but one thing you can always carry with you is knowledge.

When you create a mind you can live in and rely on, you will never be left without resources.

  • ‘The love of learning, the sequestered nooks, and all the sweet serenity of books.’ – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

This rhyme offers us a peaceful reminder to pick up those books, curl up in a quiet corner, and get lost between the pages.

  • ‘It’s a thousand pages, give or take a few. I’ll be writing more in a week or two. I can make it longer if you like the style. I can change it ‘round and I want to be a paperback writer.’ – The Beatles

 

Community and positivity:

As you are making your way through piles and piles of work, you may think, ‘what’s the point?’

There is hardly a more discouraging question, but luckily there are a multitude of answers. Your education is a forceful thing—not only to make a better life to yourself, but as a means to help others.

It is easy to become discouraged within our own narrow mindsets; look outward then, and learn not only for yourself but for those who do not have the same opportunities or unique set of skills. 


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  • ‘If it is true there are as many minds as there are heads, then there are as many kinds of love as there are hearts.’ – Leo Tolstoy

The quote from Anna Karenina is the perfect opener to this section: The way each person shows they care is completely unique. Try finding out about the kinds of heart inside the people you love, as well as your own!

  • ‘Surround yourself with people who believe in your dreams, encourage your ideas, support your ambitions, and bring out the best in you.’ – Roy T. Bennett

Community can give us everything, in life and in university. Don’t surround yourself with people who drag you down; find those who bring out the best in you.

  • ‘When you get these jobs that you have been so brilliantly trained for,  just remember that your real job is that if you are free, you need to free somebody else. If you have some power, then your job is to empower somebody else. This is not just a grab-bag candy game.’ – Toni Morrison

Assignments and deadlines can be existentially discouraging. You may find the motivation to go on, however, when you envision the ways this education can serve as a powerful tool not just to yourself, but to your community and those you love.

  • ‘I dwell in possibility.’ – Emily Dickinson

Instead of hyperfocusing on let-downs and high expectations, inhabiting a hopeful mindset can keep things in perspective.

  • ‘The desire to reach for the stars is ambitious. The desire to reach hearts is wise.’ – Maya Angelou

There is certainly nothing wrong with ambition. Alongside those grand goals, however, have the wisdom to improve the lives of those around you, as well as your own. 

  • ‘Never cut what you can unite.’ – Robert Frost

Since we are all relatively untested in the world, college can be a cutthroat time of ladder-climbing and kissing up to the professor.

More important than the academic food chain is learning to bring people together, rather than tearing down the competition. 

  • ‘In people’s lives I want to be that which does not hurt.’ – Marina Tsvetayeva, in a letter to Rainer Maria Rilke

This is a noble aspiration, put very simply. If you do not feel you have enough positivity within you to spread goodness actively, it can be enough to be a neutral, non judgemental, or gentle presence in someone’s life.

  • ‘Never trust your fears. They don’t know your strength.’ – Athena Singh

We tend to think we are a compilation of the worst parts of ourselves: Fear, self-doubt, or the way we behave on bad days.

What most people take for granted, however, are all the impressive and positive qualities they have—it is with these traits progress can be created.

  • ‘I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.’ – Mother Teresa

Your minute choices may not seem to make much of an impact at first glance. But never underestimate the power of a butterfly effect; a good deed, even small, can make a huge impact.

  • ‘Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself—what you’re wearing, who you’re around, what you’re doing. Recreate and repeat.’ – Warsan Shire

Good advice! Try to preserve what you most admire about yourself in the moments when you are at your best. Hang onto those moments for when you need them most.

  • ‘When joy is a habit, love is a reflex.’ – Bob Goff

Being a positive member of your community does not have to be a chore; loving those near you becomes more and more natural the more you practice it.

  • ‘Now I may have faith to make mountains fall, but if I lack love then I am nothing at all. I can give away everything I possess, but left without love, then I have no happiness.’– Ms. Lauryn Hill

 

Final Thoughts on Motivational Quotes for Students to Study Hard

Whether you found motivation from one or two sections, or you made it through all 73 quotes, this compilation has a lot to offer in the way of wisdom.

Don’t be shy—feel free to revisit a section when the stress starts building again, when you need a reminder of why you started this degree in the first place, if you are in need of motivational quotes to study harder, or simply some words of encouragement. 

 

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80 Selfish Quotes – Best Quotes About Not Being Selfish

Are you feeling selfish and looking for some inspiration on how to be okay with selfishness? Check out these quotes about selfishness that will make you feel better.

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For selfish people their things and their needs always come first. And in some cases, the rest don’t even exist for them. It is practically impossible for them to understand that there are others with needs besides their own.

Their gaze is so focused on themselves that everything else is blurred or disappears. It is said that those kinds of people are not capable of giving up something of their own in order to include the needs of the other.

It’s okay to be selfish at times and not place everyone in front of you, because you can´t always prioritize the needs of others over your own.

But on the other hand, you can´t always be the center of attention, and your problems are not the hardest ones in the world, so it’s good to have in mind that if you can help someone in any kind of way, you should.  

Not everyone has the same blessings and misfortunes, you never know what others around you are battling with, so being considerate with the ones around you can really make a difference in another person’s life.

And as the Chinese proverb says “if you want happiness for a lifetime, help someone else.” Selfishness is a behavior that presents very notorious characteristics, which we detect daily in many people with whom we share life.

It may be that we are in a relationship with a selfish person, that we have a co-worker who acts selfishly, or that a friend or family member behaves that way.

The truth is that sharing life with a selfish person is not easy. So here I leave you with these heartwarming selfish quotes that will make you think twice at the opportunity of helping someone.

 

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Best Quotes About Selfishness

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  1. ¨ Who wants everything every time will lose everything anytime. ¨- Vikrant Parsai
  2. ¨ Selfishness is the most unattractive virtue a mortal can possess. ¨ – Suyasha Subedi
  3. ¨ Selfishness is the greatest challenge for a coach. Most players are more concerned with making themselves better than the team. ¨ – John Wooden
  4. ¨ Selfish people also tend to have victim mindsets, their actions plant seeds of loneliness; then they cry upon the blooming. ¨- Steve Maraboli
  5. ¨ The happiest is the man who is not at all selfish. ¨ – Viveka Vani
  6. ¨ Selfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either. ¨ – Erich Fromm
  7. ¨ Selfishness and greed, individual or national, cause most of our troubles. ¨- Harry S. Truman
  8. ¨ The only difference between a hero and a villain is that the villain chooses to use that power in a way that is selfish and hurts other people. ¨ – Chadwick Boseman
  9. ¨ While selfishness joins hands with no one of the virtues, benevolence is allied to them all. ¨ – Oliver Goldsmith
  10.  ¨ Selfishness is not living as one wishing to live. It is asking others to live s one wishes to live. ¨ – Oscar Wilde
  11. ¨ It´s enough to indulge and to be selfish but true happiness is really when you start giving back. ¨- Adrian Grenier
  12. ¨ Selfish people try to keep or get things but they lose people. ¨ – Hannah Garrison
  13. ¨ Remember that life is too precious to be wasted on selfish people who have no desire to help anyone but themselves. ¨ – Unknown
  14. ¨ It is impossible to be both selfish and happy. ¨ – Dark Angel
  15. ¨ No man is more cheated than the selfish man. ¨ – Henry Ward Beecher
  16. ¨ The age of selfishness and greed is over. The age of kindness and generosity is underway. ¨ – Laurence Overmire
  17. ¨ Earth provides enough to satisfy every man´s needs, but not every man´s greed. ¨ – Mahatma Gandhi
  18. ¨ Having trouble spotting a selfish person? It´s about their schedule, their needs, their hurt feelings, their ideas, their goals, their…¨ – Shannon Thomas
  19.  ¨ The selfish man suffers more from his selfishness than he from whom that selfishness withholds some important benefit. ¨- Ralph Waldo Emerson 
  20. ¨ There is only one force stronger than selfishness, and that is stupidity. ¨ – Ellen Glasgow

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Best Quotes About Not Being Selfish 

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  1. ¨ A red rose is not selfish because it wants to be a red rose. It would be horribly selfish if it wanted all the other flowers in the garden to be both red and roses. ¨- Oscar Wilde
  2. ¨ If you want to be accepted as you are, but you expect others to be perfect… You are selfish! ¨ – Quentin McCall
  3. ¨ Don´t be selfish, don’t be selfless, just be self – full. ¨ – Pretty Smart Techie
  4. ¨ Intensely selfish people re always very decided s to what hey wish. They do not waste their energies considering the good of others. ¨ – Ouida
  5. ¨ Don´t be selfish; don´t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don´t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. ¨ – Dariene Zshech
  6. ¨ As selfishness and complaint pervert the mind, so love with its joy clears and sharpens the vision. ¨- Helen Keller
  7. ¨ Wisdom ceases to be wisdom when it becomes too proud to weep, too grave to laugh, and too selfish to seek other than itself. ¨- Khalil Gibran
  8. ¨ To be stupid, selfish, and have good health are three requirements for happiness, though if stupidity is lacking, all is lost. ¨- Gustave Flaubert
  9. ¨ Selfish people don´t consider how their behavior affects the other. Their own convenience is all that matters. ¨ – Unknown
  10. ¨ Motives for greed and selfishness are often attributed to toil and source of riches. ¨ – Michael Bassey Johnson
  11. ¨ Manifest plainness, embrace simplicity, reduce selfishness, have few desires. ¨ – Lao Tzu
  12. ¨ If you can, help others, if you cannot do that, at least do not harm them. ¨ – Dalai Lama
  13. ¨ Save me from elfish and negative people. And also, from those who have bad habits. ¨ – Sunita Sharma
  14. ¨A man is called selfish not for pursuing his own good, but for neglecting his neighbors. ¨- Richard Whately
  15. ¨ A good man cares about others. A good man has not only selfish desires. He is not only centered in himself. A bad man has no concern for others. He has only selfish concerns. He is centered in his own world. ¨ – Swami Dhyan Giten
  16. ¨ Selfishness is neither good nor bad – it depends on the way e are selfish s to whether it nourishes or injures. ¨ – Hugh Prather
  17. ¨ Selfishness at the expense of others is bad. Self-care or the betterment of others is good. ¨ – Richie Norton
  18. ¨ Selfishness isn´t bad, but being so at the cost of someone’s happiness, is a sin. ¨ – Akki
  19. ¨ Selfish people often mistake selfishness for strength It takes no talent, no intelligence, no self-control and no effort to sacrifice other people for your ego. ¨- Unknown
  20. ¨ Selfish people are, by definition, those whose activities e devoted to bringing themselves happiness. Yet… these selfish people are far less likely to be happy than those whose efforts are devoted to making others happy. ¨ – Bernard Rimland

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Selfish Quotes About Love

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  1. ¨ People don´t abandon the people they love. People abandon the people they were using. ¨- Unknown
  2. ¨ If you love without sacrifice, it is selfish. Such a love is barter, for there is exchange of love and devotion in return or something. It is conditional love. ¨ – Dada Vaswani
  3. ¨ Love wasn´t selfless, and it wasn´t selfish either. It was saying that another person´s self was just as important as yours, and expecting them to feel the same way. ¨- Rose Lerner
  4. ¨ Love is the most selfish of all the passions. ¨ – Alexandre Dumas
  5. ¨ Selfishness does not consist in love for yourself, but in a big degree of such love. ¨ – Unknown
  6. ¨ Selfishness, control, and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom, and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an ongoing romance. ¨ – Don Miguel Ruiz
  7. ¨ Selfishness and love are not bedfellows, and that is the reason why we cannot be together anymore. ¨- Unknown
  8. ¨ Love is the highest act of selfishness, the best gift you can give to yourself. ¨- Bernard Werber
  9. ¨ Self-love is not selfishness, in fact, it´s a true love that nobody could do to you. ¨- Bhagyashree
  10. ¨ Love is the most ethically consistent experience, because selfishness and altruism no longer seem opposed or in conflict. ¨- Peter Breggin

Selfish Quotes for Her

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  1. ¨ But more women should be selfish, ´ she said. ´Or else the world will trample you. ¨ – Tayari Jones, An American Marrriage
  2. ¨ I´m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I´m out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can´t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don´t deserve me at my best. ¨ – Marylin Monroe
  3. ¨ By nice women . . . you probably mean selfish women who have no more thought for the underprivileged, overworked women than a pussycat in a sunny window for the starving kitten in the street. Now in that sense, I am not a nice woman, for I do care. ¨ – Nellie L. McClung
  4. ¨ Only two species of living creatures are able to use the love for their selfish purposes- women and cats. ¨- Unknown
  5. ¨ You know, Emily was a selfish old woman n her way. She was very generous, but he always wanted a return. She never let people forget what she had done for them – and, that way he missed love. ¨ – Agatha Christie
  6. ¨ I prefer a loose woman to a selfish one and a wanton to a fool. ¨- W. Somerset Maugham
  7. ¨ Good mothers make all kinds of choices. Making a decision that might sound selfish does not make a woman a bad mother. ¨ Jada Pinkett Smith
  8. ¨ Be selfish enough to have self-love, self-worth and self-respect. ¨ – Unknown
  9. ¨ Because I´m selfish. I´m a coward. I´m the kind of girl who, when he might actually be of use, would run to stay alive and leave those who couldn´t follow to suffer d die. ¨- Suzanne Collins
  10.  ¨ Do not let selfish men or greedy interests skin your country f its beauty, its riches or its romance. ¨- Theodore Roosevelt

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Selfish Quotes for Friends

  1. ¨ Some people aren´t loyal o you… They are loyal to the need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty. ¨ – Unknown
  2. ¨ You shouldn´t always be available for someone who doesn´t even ask how you’re doing. ¨ – RJYSH
  3. ¨ I have many friends who are selfish. So, I rather stay alone because loneliness is better than a loveless friendship. ¨- Annu
  4. ¨ Most people want to see you do better. But not better than them. ¨- London Mond
  5. ¨ Don’t be friends with Selfish people because they don’t care about you at all, they just want to use you for their own benefit…. ¨ – Dead Man Writeups
  6. ¨ Keeping bad company is like being in a germ-infested area. You never know what you’ll catch. ¨ ― Frank Sonnenberg
  7. ¨Your healing will begin the moment you realize who you need to distance yourself from.¨  ― r. m. drake
  8. ¨ A selfish friend invites you into their maze of painful emotions and then traps you there.¨  ― Christina J. Daniels
  9. ¨ None are so inconsiderate as those who demand nothing of life other than their own personal comfort. ¨ ― Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
  10. ¨ Generally speaking, the most miserable people I know are those who are obsessed with themselves; the happiest people I know are those who lose themselves in the service of others…By and large, I have come to see that if we complain about life, it is because we are thinking only of ourselves. ¨ ― Gordon B. Hinckley
  11.  “It’s hard to get people to overcome the thought that they have to take care of themselves first. It’s hard to get players to give in to the group and become selfless as opposed to selfish.” ― Isaiah Thomas
  12. “What you love is your own love. It’s not love, it’s selfishness. It’s not me you think of, but what you feel about me.” ― John Fowles, The Collector
  13. ¨ Selfishness is if you only remember a friend if you need something from them. ¨ – Unknown
  14. ¨ You´re either selfish, or you´re a servant… fundamentally selfish people are terrible friends, terrible lovers, terrible spouses, terrible Christians, terrible parents. They leave a terrible legacy. Will you be selfish? Will you be a servant?… A good marriage is a servant and a servant. ¨ – Mark Driscoll
  15. ¨ Selfish friends leave when times get tough. ¨- Sonya Teclai
  16. ¨ Selfish friends are your worst enemy. ¨ – Hasnat Ch
  17. ¨ A selfish man doesn´t care if his best friend drowns beside him. ¨- Joe Cervantes
  18. ¨ Selfish friends only have themselves in the end. ¨- Unknown
  19. ¨ I said I’m selfish, I’m a liar and I’m broken. Shit runs through my head every day that I would never tell anyone. You’re just like me. The only difference is that I’m honest enough to scream my flaws in the lines of this song¨ – Real Friends Dirty Water
  20. Selfish friends have a hard time understanding the fact that your life doesn’t revolve around them. ¨ – Christina J. Daniels

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Final Thoughts on Selfish Quotes

Selfishness is nothing more than a problematic individualism that basically opposes self-interest and the interests of others. This anti-value puts men at odds with themselves by creating a hunger that cannot be satisfied.

Up to that point, it is a constant source of disease. It is a term associated with superfluous and extravagant needs.

Furthermore, it implies self-gain at the expense of others. Its means are inconsistent with self-realization and self-interest. And it doesn’t understand that human potential is fulfilled through one’s own efforts, without usurping what legitimately belongs to others.

This self-centered selfishness is the root from which we build a victimizing and reactive personality, always complaining and blaming something or someone external to us every time things don’t turn out as expected.

And it permanently reveals our feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction, which leads us to obsessively seek sources of escape 24 hours a day.

Ironically, the more self-centered our worldview is, the more we see others as selfish. So, I hope these selfish quotes clean your energy and help you make that change in your attitudes that will surely lead you to a better and more peaceful life.

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100 Best Brother Quotes – The Ultimate 2022 Guide

Are you having trouble thinking of ways to show your love for your brother? Check out these brother quotes to share your affection.

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This post is all about brother quotes!

Here you´ll find the best brother quotes that will remind you how blessed you are to have a brother.

In houses where there is more than one child, there is crying, fighting and naughtiness, but there is also tenderness, affection, and protection.

Having a brother should not mean the loss of benefits but the gain of love, friendship, laughter and games. 

Having a brother for any child or adult means not being alone in the face of life’s challenges, having company in difficult times and someone to lean on.

This relationship is usually the longest in our lives, and the most important one because it forms the guidelines of each one’s personality. 

Brothers are companions of the soul, life and heart. Normally a brother relationship survives despite conflicts and rough times.

Appreciate every second you have with your brother because having a brother can be the greatest blessing in your life, yet the hardest farewell.

So let these brother quotes sink deep inside your heart, make you appreciate the unconditional partner you´ll have through this road called life, and help you express it to him with all the love he deserves. 

Check out these Best brother quotes to share with your sibling! 

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  • Best Brother Quotes

    1. “Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero.” – Marc Brown
    2. “There´s no other love like the love for a brother. There´s no other love like the love from a brother.” – Astrid Alauda
    3. “A brother is a friend given by nature.” – Jean Baptiste Legouve
    4. “Because brothers don´t let each other wander in the dark alone.” – Jolene Perry
    5. “Once a brother, always a brother no matter the distance, no matter the difference, and no matter the issue.” – Byron Pulsifer
    6. “Only a brother can love like a father, annoy like a sister, care like a mother and support like a friend. I love you my brother.” – Joyce Knight 
    7. “There is no success you can celebrate more than the success of a brother. – Diego Luna
    8. “Never make a companion equal to a brother.” – Hesoid
    9. “No one could understand the bond between me and my brother. I struggled to understand the forces that drove his soul in one direction and mine in another.” – Barry White
    10. “A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. – King Solomon
    11. “Brothers don’t necessarily have to say anything to each other – they can sit in a room and be together and just be completely comfortable with each other.” Leonardo DiCaprio
    12. “It takes two men to make one brother.” – Israel Zangwill
    13. “When I look at each of my brothers, I see two things. First, I see the next place I want to leave a rosy welt. Second, I see a good man who will always be there, no matter how hard life gets for me or him. Then, I get out of the way because I realize he’s coming at me with a wet dish towel.” – Dan Pearce
    14. “Children of the same family, the same blood, with the same first associations and habits, have some means of enjoyment in their power, which no subsequent connections can supply.” – Jane Austen
    15. “Books are like brothers. I am an only child. Gatsby is my imaginary eldest brother.” F. Scott Fitzgerald
    16. “I think, am sure, a brother´s love exceeds all the world´s loves in its unworldliness.” – Robert Browning
    17. “Half the time when brothers wrestle, it´s just an excuse to hug each other.” – James Patterson
    18. “Brothers are children of the same parents, each of whom is perfectly normal until they get together.” – Sam Levenson
    19. “What strange creatures brothers are!” – Jane Austen
    20. “No matter what you choose, you´ll always be my little brother.” Denahi, Brother Bear

    Brother Quotes from Sister

    1. “I grew up with a younger brother, so I can get pretty rowdy.” – Sarah Wynter 
    2. “Brother and sister, together as friends, ready to face whatever life sends.” – Robert Brault
    3. “There is a little boy inside the man who is my brother…. Oh, how I hated that little boy. And how I love him too.” – Anna Quindlen
    4. “Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet.” – Vietnamese Proverb
    5. “After a girl is grown, her little brothers, now her protectors, seem like big brothers.” – Terri Guillemets
    6. “As we grew up, my brothers acted like they didn´t care, but I always knew they looked out for me and were there!” – Catherine Pulsifer 
    7. “She was sad, he was with her. She was mad, he was with her. She was happy, he was with her. Who was he? Boyfriend, best friend? Nah, brother…” – Mohit, The Writer´s Saying
    8. “Our brothers and sisters are there with us from the dawn of our personal stories to the inevitable dusk.” – Susan Scarf Merrell
    9. “Brothers and sisters can say things to one another that no one else can.” – Gregory E. Lang
    10. “Brother and sister, together as friends, ready to face whatever life sends. Joy and laughter or tears and strife, holding hands tightly as we dance through life.” – Suzie Huitt
    11. “Sisters and brothers just happen, we don´t get to choose them, but they become one of our most cherished relationships.” – Wes Adamson
    12. “The love between a brother and sister just over a year apart in age held fast. It wasn´t twinship, and it wasn´t romance, but it was more like a passionate loyalty to a dying brand.” Meg Wolitzer
    13. “As a brother and sister, our tastes were pretty different growing up. He liked a lot of early hip hop. My dad didn´t understand it and would try to talk him out of it.” – Taryn Manning
    14. “You can kid the world, but not your sister.” – Charlotte Gray
    15. “We shred parents, home, pets, celebrations, catastrophes, secrets. And the threads of our experience became so interwoven that we are linked. I can never be utterly lonely, knowing you share the planet.” – Pam Brown
    16. “The bond between a sister and brother sometimes tightly woven sometimes loosely held, but never broken.” – Niloy Sarbajna
    17. “To the outside world, we all grow old. But not to brothers and sisters. We know each together as we always were. We know each other´s hearts. We share private family jokes. we remember family feuds and secrets; family grieves and joys. We live outside the touch of time.” – Clara Ortega
    18. “If you have a brother or sister, tell them you love them every day, that´s the most beautiful thing.” – Amaury Nolasco
    19. “Sisters and brothers are the truest, purest forms of love, family and friendship, knowing when to hold you and when to challenge you, but always being part of you.” – Carol Ann Albright Eastman
    20. “A sibling represents a person´s past, present, and future.” – John Corey Whaley

     

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    Funny Brother Quotes

    1. “Brothers that say they never fight, are most definitely hiding something.” – Lemony Snicket
    2. “Siblings are the people we practice on, the people who teach us about fairness and cooperation and kindness and caring- quite often the hard way.” Pamela Dugdale 
    3. “I miss my brother. Prince was a funny cat. Great sense of humor.” – Spike Lee
    4. “Everyone know that if you´ve got a brother you´re going to fight.”. – Liam Gallagher
    5. “For ever and ever, kid, until you´re tired of seeing me.” – Marie Lu, Legend
    6. “No, you should stay right where you are, or my estranged brother and I will settle our difference by seeing who can break more of your bones.” – Rachel Vincent, Before I wake
    7. “And of course, when you see your brother in the toilet bowl…there’s a little voice that say, ‘I wonder where he would go…’…if it hadn’t been for his head…” – Bill Cosby
    8. “God, I wish he and I had been genuinely close as opposed to the”Don’t-they-look-nice-together-in-the-airbrushed-family-portrait close.” – Douglas Coupland, Hey Nostradamus
    9. “You have a little brother,”she reminded him.I know,”answered Yard Ape,”but we just keep him for a pet.” -” Beverly Clearly, Ramona´s World
    10. “To share your bread with your brother is the most beautiful thing to do.” – Lailah Gifty Akita
    11. “Some girls have brothers who burp; some have brothers who punch them. I have one who thinks he’s parked at my house temporarily while he’s between intergalactic voyages.” – Cindy Callaghan, Lost in Hollywood
    12. “The only reason that some people aren’t ashamed of their parents and/or siblings is because they know that we know that they did not choose them.” – Mokokoma Mokhonoana
    13. “Teddy said it was a hat, So I put it on. Now dad is saying,”where the heck’s the toilet plunger gone?” – Shel Silverstein
    14. “What brothers say to tease their sisters has nothing to do with what they really think of them.” – Esther M. Friesner, Nobody´s Princess
    15. Siblings have always marked out territory through food.” – Bee Wilson, First Bite: How We Learn to Eat
    16. “Oh, brothers! I don’t care for brothers. My older brother won’t die, and my younger brothers seem never to do anything else.” – Oscar Wilde
    17. “The younger brother must help to pay for the pleasures of the elder.”Jane Austen
    18. “My elder brother won’t die, and my younger brothers seem never to do anything else.” – Oscar Wilde
    19. “I grew up with six brothers. That’s how I learned to dance – waiting for the bathroom.” – Bob Hope 
    20. “The best way to get a puppy is to beg for a baby brother – and they’ll settle for a puppy every time.” –  Winston Pendleton.

     

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    Heartwarming Emotional Brother Quotes

    1. “We came into the world like brother and brother; and now let´s go in hand, not one before another.” – William Shakespeare 
    2. “In death as in life, we stand together, always a family, always a team. The brotherhood never dies.” – Marcus Luttrell
    3. “We didn´t realize we were making memories; we just knew we were having fun.” – Winnie the Pooh
    4. “Your parents leave you too soon and your kids and spouse come along late, but your siblings know you when you are in your most inchoate form.” – Jeffrey Kluger
    5. “Your brother is always the first male friend you will have in your life. Nobody will ever be able to understand your craziness like your brother and although you don’t see each other as much as you’d like, he will always remain your friend and be there for you when you need him the most. While people will come and go in your life, your brother will be in your heart for a lifetime.” – Ritu Ghatourey
    6. “He is my most beloved friend and my bitterest rival, my confidant and my betrayer, my sustainer and my dependent, and scariest of all, my equal.” – Gregg Levoy
    7. “The beauty of genuine brotherhood and peace is more precious than diamonds or silver or gold.” – Martin Luther King Jr
    8. “The crest and crowning of all good, life’s final star, is brotherhood.” – Edwin Markham
    9. “I grew up with an older brother, and the bond between siblings is unlike anything else, and it can be a real journey to accept what that bond is once you both mature into it. Because it’s not always what you want. It’s not always what you expect. It’s not always what you imagined or hoped. But it’s one of the most important things in the world.” – Ben Schnetzer
    10. “As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live.” – John Paul II
    11. “My brother is worth a thousand of your friend.” – Cersei Lannister
    12. “Will you be there for him if he needs you? Of course. Should you love him without question? Absolutely.” – David Levithan
    13. “The Wright Brothers flew right through the smoke screen of impossibility.” – Charles Kettering
    14. “Pain shared, my brother, is pain not doubled but halved. No man is an island.” – Neil Gaiman
    15. “When you are a grown up your brothers become your neighbors and your unconditional brotherhood become your conditional neighborhood.” – Amit Kalantri
    16. “Brotherhood means laying down your life for somebody, ready willing to sacrifice yourself for somebody else.” – Tim Hetherington
    17. “My loyalty to my brother is how I measure myself.” – Reggie Kray, Legend
    18. “A sibling may be the keeper of one´s identity, the only person with the keys to one´s unfettered or fundamental self.” – Marian Sandmaier
    19. “An ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship” – Spanish Proverb
    20. “Behind every great man, is a good brother.” – Nathan Followill

     

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    Long Distance Brother Quotes

    1. “Distance is to love like wind is to fire… it extinguishes the small and kindles the great!” – Roger de Bussy-Rabutin
    2. “Never forget who was with you from the start.” – Ziad K. Abdelnour
    3. “Goodbyes are not forever. Goodbyes are not the end. They simply mean I´ll miss you, until we meet again.” – Richard Engelfriet
    4. “You went away so suddenly. We did not say goodbye. But brothers can never be parted. Precious memories never die.” – Khalil Gibran
    5. “What if I´m far from home oh brother I will hear you call, what if I lose it all oh sister, I will help you out oh if the sky is coming down for you there´s nothing in this world I wouldn´t do.” – Avicii
    6. “I miss my brother, and if you won´t fight for the things that made you happy then I´m going to fight for you.” – Krista Ritchie
    7. “Our path may change as life goes along, but the bond between us remains ever strong.” – Marian Sandmaier
    8. “A family together, never apart maybe in distance but never at heart.” – Anna Smith 
    9. “You can put miles between you and your family but you carry them with you; you live in a world and a world lives in you.” – Frederick Buechner 
    10. “Love knows no distance, it hath no continent, its eyes are for the stars.” – Gilbert Parker
    11. “Distance between two people is inconsequential when their souls are united.” – Matshona Dhliwayo
    12. “Distance makes the heart grow fonder.” – Thomas Haynes Bayly
    13. “Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness.” – Albert Einstein 
    14. “Oceans separate lands, not souls.” – Munia Khan
    15. “Sometimes you have to be apart from the people you love, but that doesn´t make you love them any less. Sometimes you love them more.” – Nicholas Spark 
    16. “I found that I missed him the more he was absent from my life, and the more I missed him, the more I loved him.” – Donna Lynn Hope
    17. “It´s not the distance that´s the enemy, but the endless time I have to wait to hold you in my arms.” – Livius Besski
    18. “The distance may be far and wide, but my heart can cover them all. The space between us is so much more but you should know that. I love you so!” – Linda Roy
    19. “Distance means so little when someone means so much.” – Tom McNeal
    20. “As long as we share the same sky and breathe the same air, we´re still together.” – Donna Lynn Hope

    Final Thoughts

    There is no relationship comparable to that established between siblings. Despite the tense moments, even despite those battles in which they seem to become irreconcilable enemies, the bond that unites brothers is something special.

    During childhood, each brother might deploy certain strategies to get the attention of their parents, but once they reach maturity, siblings often leave the differences of the past to take care of each other.

    It is a special bond that they do not choose. It is the blood that unites them, and it is the day-to-day experiences that build a union that knows no time, gender or age. 

    Brothers are also the ones who forge many features of the other’s identity, and they stand up as a supporter in challenging moments. Our brothers are a bond of union and balance that will always accompany us.

    We all have our nuances, our follies and responsibilities. We share the same traits and we even laugh the same. And although we have taken different paths, we are always united by the same lane: love.

    So, if you have the luck of having a brother, share these heartwarming quotes with them, because there is no moment quite like the present to show our love for one another. 

    Check out this video of beautiful brother quotes! 

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