“On the internet you can be true to yourself. You can explore and discover who you are relatively safely.”
Growing up in the internet age with things like Tumblr and Twitter in my life as a teenager really helped me see that I was bisexual
. On the internet you can be true to yourself.
You can explore and discover who you are relatively safely. You can be anonymous to people you know in real life. That gave me so much freedom.
Because of the internet, I was able to test out different labels and see what was right for me. I identified as aromantic, pansexual, and lesbian. I eventually settled on bisexual as the best label for me.
I don’t use Tumblr anymore, and it has a lot of toxic ideas on it. Still, it really helped me as a teen trying to find myself.
Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I hadn’t grown up with the internet or if I hadn’t lived in a progressive city like New York. I think I could have lived my whole life repressing my sexuality and believing I was straight.
That’s so sad for me to think about. Being bisexual is so important to me. I’m so thankful for the environment I was raised in.
The LGBTQ community is incredibly important to me. Having a community like that helps me meet amazing new people.
I love going to LGBTQ events. This community is so strong, creative, and resilient. I’m very proud to be a part of that.
All of my close friends are LGBTQ too. Even people that I knew before coming out.
Having that in common brings us closer together. It’s something that we can talk about and bond over.
I’m not officially out to my parents but I think they know. They’re very open minded so they wouldn’t care anyway. I’m out to my sister, she’s bisexual too.
With my friends, it was casual. Like I said, they’re all part of the LGBTQ community.
I knew they were LGBTQ before they knew about me. That made it really easy to just drop into conversation. Now we’re a big happy LGBTQ group, it’s great.